Thursday, May 17, 2012

When Bad Things Happen


Basic Material: Chapter 4 of When Christians Get It Wrong, by Adam Hamilton

Focus: Reconciling pain, disappointment, and a loving God.

Discussion Points:
·         Is the suffering of others always a test from God, a judgment from God, or the will of God?
o   Things people sometimes say when we are suffering: “God is making you suffer for a good reason.” “You will be very happy when you see how God uses this.” “Everything happens for a reason.”
o   Who should take responsibility when bad things happen?
o   The confusion that sometimes stems from Romans 8:28 - And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.
o   Paul’s advice: Romans 12:15 - Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn.
·         Can Faith Fix Everything?
o   The origins of the Greek word for “faith”. Faith, Belief, and Trust are translated from one Greek root word. In the end, “faith” is all about “obedience”, and “faith without acts is useless.”
o   Hebrews 11:1 - Now faith is confidence in what we hope for and assurance about what we do not see. James 2:19-22 - You believe that there is one God. Good! Even the demons believe that —and shudder. You foolish person, do you want evidence that faith without deeds is useless? Was not our father Abraham considered righteous for what he did when he offered his son Isaac on the altar? You see that his faith and his actions were working together, and his faith was made complete by what he did.
o   Read all of Hebrews 11, particularly Hebrews 11:39 -  These were all commended for their faith, yet none of them received what had been promised, since God had planned something better for us so that only together with us would they be made perfect.
o   Sometimes our hopeful thinking is more about faith in faith than faith in God.
·         Is there ever a connection between sin and suffering?
o   Does forgiving require forgetting?
o   Recall the story of David and Bathsheba - 2 Samuel 12:1-20.
o   Free will is a Beast!

·         Does raising children in a Godly home guarantee their future?
o   Confusion about Proverbs 22:6 - Start children off on the way they should go, and even when they are old they will not turn from it.
o   Definition: Proverb - A short pithy saying in general use, stating a general truth or piece of advice.
o   Potential confusion from the parable of the prodigal son (Luke 15:11-32).
o   See Psalm 51:5 - Surely I was sinful at birth, sinful from the time my mother conceived me. Ezekiel 18:20 - … The child will not share the guilt of the parent, nor will the parent share the guilt of the child. The righteousness of the righteous will be credited to them, and the wickedness of the wicked will be charged against them. (Just heed the warning in Mark 9:42 – “And if anyone causes one of these little ones who believe in me to sin, it would be better for him to be thrown into the sea with a large millstone tied around his neck.”)
o   The Evolution of Larry Osborne’s sermons as his children grew: “Ten Rules for Raising Godly Kids”, “Ten Guidelines for Raising Good Kids”, “Five Principles for Raising Kids”, “Three Suggestions for Surviving Parenthood”.
o   Living in a Godly environment does not guarantee anyone’s future: Adam and Eve.  Peter and the other disciples.
·         Does God sometimes protect his people?
o   Your stories… My stories.
o   Stories in the Bible – Daniel and the lions’ den, Joseph and his brothers, Shadrach, Meshach and Abendnego (and King Nebuchadnezzar), 

Further Discussion:
  1. Can faith and doubt coexist? – See Acts 12.
  2. What kind of faith does God want from us? – See Daniel 3:18 - But even if he does not, we want you to know, Your Majesty, that we will not serve your gods or worship the image of gold you have set up.

Further Reading: 10 Dumb Things Smart Christians Believe, Larry Osborne

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